Can Social Media Posts Be Used Against My Ex in Divorce?

 Posted on March 26, 2025 in Divorce

Almost everyone thinking about or going through a divorce understands how distressing it can be. Worrying about property division, finances, and your children’s well-being can make it seem difficult to just get through the day. Many Americans turn to social media to catch up with what their friends are doing or to watch the latest funny video. Sadly, some people use social media as a tool to bash their co-parents or future exes during a divorce.

If your ex is using social media as a weapon against you, it could backfire. We caution our clients to avoid posting on social media during divorce, even if you do not discuss your legal issues in your posts and messages. Posts are sometimes used as evidence, and they can also lead to even more disputes and complications. If your ex has shared questionable posts, one of our dedicated Denton, TX divorce attorneys can help you explore your options.

How Could a Social Media Post Be Used as Divorce Evidence?

You and your spouse have to make several decisions during the divorce process. You may argue about many of those decisions, whether they involve your children, alimony, child support, or property division.

Suppose your soon-to-be ex is claiming he cannot pay the maintenance you are requesting or that paying child support will strain his ability to support himself financially. Then, a social media post shows him driving a new sports car or on an expensive vacation. Whether he shared the post or was simply tagged in it, it can be used to show that his claims of financial strain may not be true. This type of post could also affect property division, as it could mean he is hiding assets.

Aside from finances, arguments about conservatorship for your children can be bitter. Social media posts showing your co-parent is unfit can affect custody, visitation, and his parental rights. For example, mentioning needing a drink or photos of him with a drink in hand could be used to call his ability to care for your children into question. He may make negative comments about you, which could be used to demonstrate that he is not willing to cooperate with you or support your continued relationship with your shared children.

What Should I Do If I Find Negative Social Media Posts Targeting Me?

Take screenshots, but do not interact with the post. Do not mention it to your ex or anyone else who shared it. Contact your attorney right away. We can record the post properly so it can be used as evidence in your divorce case.

Remember, though, that your ex can do the same to you. Avoid posting or commenting on social media, and ask your friends and family not to mention or tag you in their posts.

Call a Skilled Collin County, TX Divorce Lawyer

Whether you or your ex have made questionable posts that could affect divorce decisions, an experienced Frisco, TX divorce attorney from The Law Office of Linda Risinger can take appropriate action to protect your best interests. Call 972-294-6533 or contact us online today to schedule a free consultation.